We know that even good relationships can get stuck in unhealthy patterns.

Do you find that when you are trying to connect with your partner you end up in a cycle of communication that’s not helpful or productive? Do you retreat and stuff it down until next time? There is always next time… Maybe this time they will understand…we become louder in hopes they see how to hurt we are. Oh, they see it, but they just get more defensive. The more we aren’t seen and heard the more resentful we become. The explosions become more significant and the intimacy ceases, now you are just resentful roommates.

It doesn’t have to be this way.

When emotional responsiveness and affection decrease, conflicts elevate and connection eventually ruptures. During our time together you will begin to recognize that the conflict and outbursts are actually a cry for love and connection. In time you will learn how to ask for what you need so your partner can receive it.

We’re here to help you recognize the patterns that have led to the defensiveness and fighting, during our time together you will develop better ways of communicating and relating to each other. Perhaps, for the first time, you will feel honestly heard and understood. Our counseling sessions will provide a safe, supportive space where we can talk about sensitive issues including infidelity and sexuality. We advocate for the LGBTQAI2S+ community, sex and kink affirming, we see all couples regardless of each partner’s sexual orientation or gender identity.

You’re tired of feeling caught in this cycle:

• We will go deep, and connect your past to your current relationship challenges.

• We help you to improve your communication and listening skills.

• You will discover your own unique needs and expressions of love.